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There are plenty of foreigners who have come here to get it together with a Swedish woman and then deeply regretted it. Did I miss something? Sometimes, he text many times during the day every day professing his love for me. October 30, at 1: S in my mind. Swedish girls are everything what you fantasize about.
If you go to Sweden, or the majority of the world, with your current mentality, you will find it difficult to make any healthy relationships in general. All the Best Sweet Singles: A lot of people in Cali are trashy in Southern areas. Anyway, I still remember his face and I just find it so sweet and funny. March 14, at 3: Well why wait, here is my address?
First impressions are lasting ones! Just learn how to respect others, as you would want to be. I strongly suggest that you take some courses on western society, as your preconceived notions are just fictional. If you go to Sweden, or the majority of the world, with your current mentality, you will find it difficult to make any healthy relationships in general.
Yes, it is true that there are some people who are rather ethnocentric, but the majority are not. Overall, I can speak for myself, and many who I know, who really like British people and the rest of the world. I can imagine that the other Americans were probably equally harrassing the same people as you, Dano lol.
My family is pretty much military, and there is a long, traditional line of it. However, I can tell you that many of the friends they have made, or married, were from other cultures. I guess your conversations with them can be considered foreign policy? Think I might have mentioned balls — anyway why are so many men so wet? Has feminism emasculated them? Why in particular should the gorg Swedish males be lacking in the balls dept? Though had to say a v drunk and not gorg at all Swede did start talking to me in a bar in Stockholm.
Unfortunately it was about Man U so I quickly tuned out! I like a bit of cockiness at least it shows some get up and go. I like a challenge and all but…. I am a guy from Argentina, I have been reading all the messages and I am sure that swedish guys suffer about this article as much as if I would be a swedish guy. I love Swedish women. Anton you are right! Though I think that some things of this article may be true, I do not fall into generalizations.
There is one thing true: Youre women are wanted by everybody and that hurts! As a western man I think it is up to you to defend what it is yours as the vikings used to do, that is what men do,just defend what is yours. I do not want that swedish beauty to be lost! Defend what is yours! It is up to your women to understand that they do no have the worst men in the world. They are handsome amd more civilized than others. I love you Sweden! Really nice post Sapphire and lets hope more Swedish women will replay on your post.
I agree with you on many things but I think Swedish guys are almost the same as others who live in Europe. I can say guys here in Ireland or in Poland are similar to Swedish. Not all ofcourse as i do belive, not all Swedish guys are the same. I had long time ago a Swedish girl with Norwich origins and she told me that Swedish girls are as more intrested with foregin guys as Swedish guys with foregin women.
On first place are career and friends mostly other males. Swedish girls do not need 24 hour attention from guy side but they need respect and understanding from guys side. Also they want their man be not only a lover but also a good friend. Swedish girls also dont like when guys paying most of the time for everything and they want to share bills etc even if you like it or not.
Couples could go for a walk and do long distance without any word! Only girls talked to each other same as bouys to other boys. Next year or in two i wanna move to Stockholm and live there. I would like to hear more about swedish girls here what they like and dislike and what is important for them in relationships.
Thank you all for attention and waiting for replays: If you mean me Sara then write how Swedish girls are: Also i found a website where one guy from USA moved to europe and wrote posts about european women and here is post about Swedish Women: In my visit to Sweden I did find that they certainly find different cultures very attractive.
I am a naturalized US citizen born in Mexico with my family ancestry mostly from Spain. Life its not so bad in the US for me, but I still have to work for it if I want to meet someone nice. In here US I would say that the blonde hair blue eyed guy would be more exotic and possibly more attractive as someone that is olive skinned dark haired dark eyed like me.
Just for the fact that its not so common here. She is a commodity and me as the guy I have to prove my value to her from the start. In sweden, it was just plain ridicoulous, akin to shooting fish in a barrel. Latin guys are not that common, and just by being there at all I had their attention.
They would be very happy that im just talking to them and some of them displayed this nervouness shyness around me towards me during initial contact. Most were happy I chose them over the other countless pretty girls there. In there I definitively had an edge over the local men, both as a foreigner, and possibly as someone that by their standards is a bit exotic looking. It took no work to meet new friends over there.
I could say whatever I wanted almost and it would work well. I had such a good experience, I am now learning the language through live mocha, and will make the scandinavian countries a yearly thing for me at least. Ill make sure Im in even better shape too for good measure as well. Latin guy — so,like the Grand banks are prime fishing ground for American fishermen — Scandinavia is about to become your main shagging ground?
Please visit often,and wear lots of that Mexican gold religious stuff and bling. It is more interesting to know about the perception and practice of dating community in Europe than the blog post on Swedish girls. As an Indian I could say that three is a definite biological divide between men and women.
Understanding, supporting, appreciating and respecting each other and their values is the bottom line of success in married life. Legal rights and liberated thoughts do take the backbench and will not contribute to conjugal happiness. I would appreciate your real life contributions. Uh, seriously, Dano, a very limited amount of Americans speak like that… and even then, mostly only in hardcore rap music.
On a side note: Being Asian, it disappoints me that men see women as not only objects, but request that strangers fulfill their demands without question. Do you have any Swedish female friends? We would love to hear more about you and why you want to move to Sweden. Because of my open opinions and thoughts I will contribute to a happier relationship with my husband through expressed understandings. Legal protection gives me the comfort to know that if my husband dies I am not left on the streets to fend for myself via a life insurance policy nor is he if I die.
A hundred years ago, women had no property inheritance or financial stability guaranteed by law. THAT decreases marital instability in relationships. I would love to meet some americans here in Sweden. Please send me an e-mail! Loverof—Have you read some of the comments below videos on youtube lately? Expectations of American man applied for?: Anyone fancy doing a Brit version of this in response?
I agree with Celine, a hilarious read. However, I have known many foreign guys in Sweden at universities, mostly from the Anglo-Saxon world, and almost none have been at all successful in the Swedish love department. Some Swedish girls are OK with Catholic, American or Muslim values neither of which respect women very well , but most are not.
Swedish values raise the bar for both men and women. I obviously cook and clean, but I also do renovations and fix computers. Such skills, along with a certain degree of intellectual maturity, seem to have been taken for granted by a lot of Swedish girls that I have associated with.
To master a language enough to make jokes and be the life of a party usually takes about 10 years of practice. All you foreigners here, can you tell a joke like Robert Gustavsson? Totally agree with you. I have lived for almost one year, here in Sundsvall I see many African men and Swedish girls couples. Most African guys dating Swedish girls, are somewhat confident and feeling good about themselves.
Thats my two points. Dacke — Thanks for your comment. If that is the case, I can see that being a big issue here. Vincent — Confidence and feeling good about yourself: Shyness and nervousness are acceptable, but be proud of yourself.
You should have no problems getting a book deal! Your writing is genuine, refreshing and truly entertaining. As an American man, I found your site through a referral. Keep up the good work and tell the guys to stop drinking booze like Swedish fish! Sounds like i need to go to Sweden considering all the men over there are litte pusies. What the worst answer you can get from them? But overall nice article. Come and show them how a REAL man gets women!
Been outside your country yet? Things can be very different when you come to other countries and cultures. You could come here and have a really succesful time. I am an Indian-American guy who came from a Hindu family but later became a Christian.
I also attended a Swedish-American Lutheran college, but was more into the very exotic types of women at that time. Right now I have an acute case of the Vikette fever ;-. But I do not speak a word of Swedish.
And I am a pretty devout Christian, want a large family like kids , believe that men should be chivalrous, and want to share my faith with others especially Muslims and Atheists. Yet at the same time I have always been extremely progressive.
I would want a woman to be highly educated and to work outside the home as I would want her to have some independence if something happened to me. I also believe in evolution, sex-education, reproductive rights, and gender equality. And I live a very ecofriendly lifestyle, am concerned about climate change, and believe in universal healthcare. Swedish girls are not only beautiful but they are so intelligent and sophisticated too. They read, travel, and have independent minds. And Sweden seems like such a nice place to raise a family because education and healthcare are phenomenal and not so expensive.
I truly admire the cohesive and corruption-free societies that Scadanavians have built. But could I fit in? Many Christian girls in the US who want this are waaay too conservative, often superstitious, and do not think critically. Are there Swedish girls who have the best of both worlds who might be into my type?
Ahh yes, and finally, I am not looking to get married right away as I want some time for my own development. But I also do not want to just hookup and definitely do not want to get girls drunk to do so.
Some girls will become devout Muslims when they marry guys from those countries because it is exotic, the girls are naive, and the education system and media are too politically correct to criticize it in the way they have lambasted Christianity for decades. And some like African men, even asylum seekers with criminal records because they believe in the myth, because of the taboo nature, or because they think that they can be some kind of agent of social change.
But are there the kinds who will be interested in the kinds of guys that their parents might also like? I had fun reading all these remarks about people from other culture. One thing is certain. I like blond men and brown haired men. I think blond men are more chivalrous than majority of other men. And I like the Scandinavian man features too.
I am a white Latin woman, with medium brown hair blond during childhood , big brown eyes and nice features. I would love to meet a blonde or light brown haired man who likes white latin women. I have a latin personality and gentle nature. And I have a nice figure and very attractive facial features. My email address is sheila at yahoo dot com. I would like to know names of websites to date scandinavian men.
I would like to meet one Scandinavian man. And I would like to have comments of people. I am very liberal in my thinking and I respect all kinds of opinions as long as they do not harm other people.
People have different personalities and ways of thinking. That is what makes each of us interesting. I am a Swedish girl, and ever since I was little, I fantasized about an American man. So the real question is how to fix one?! You come to America, I go to Sweden..
I looked up that group! That is some scary group!! Hate missing posts here! I seem to have a fan club lol. DS — Why you talking to truth about MS13? It was me who mentioned them lol. P Hope your well hun. Does anyone know of the best ways to meet beautiful Swedish women around my area? I hate you all. Well this site left me with my mouth open and amazed!
This is not possible! Is it uncommon for swedish women to stay in the same bed at night with a best friend that is male? Is casual sex with a male friend if the women has a boyfriend, that is not in the country common if they are good friends? Just need a honest opinion from a 3rd party, thanks. Jake — Yep, totally agree with Dano. D I can smell the humour all the way from here btw. Thank you for the replies, read all the negatives on swedish women thats why i asked the last question.
I truly admire the cohesive and corruption-free societies that Scandinavians have built. Some girls will become devout Muslims when they marry guys from those countries because it is exotic, the girls are naive, and the education system and media are too politically correct to criticize it in the way they have lambasted other religions for decades.
As one of the swedish men, I just have to agree on the fact that we need to grow some balls, absolutely! When it come to chivalry I would say that it varies from man to man, but more chivalry in general would be nice. However, dont show to much chivalry, it can backfire! When it comes to men drinking way to much i have to say that the younger the man, the more he drinks.
As said above, dont get wasted! They require you to be able to have a intelligent conversation! In sweden the comfort zone is about an arms lenght and an inch or two. What chances does a good-looking Asian man with most of the qualities so I have been told by most white girls in San Francisco, which are a fairly diverse sample the author mentioned?
Do they hold any prejudice against Asian men? I think the effort should be put into girls who have the same expectations. I would love to meet my expectation in a Swedish girl! I would not wanna be together with a man that think men are more worth than women.
Helga Men ARE more valuable than women. I have been to Stockholm in summer and spent 4 days there. It was an amazing experience for me. Yes, I got obsessed with Swedish women but it was not looks that attracted me most. Excluding the German girl who was staying in the same hotel, at least 3 Swedish girls were interested in me during my short visit which is such a record.
They expressed interest in a polite and nice way but for some reason I thought they are just being cautious how stupid of me — lol.
I am not obsessed with Swede girls any more but it would be amazing if I have a serious relationship with a Swede girl: I love to make friends with anyone from Scandinavia whether male or female. The first thing we men need to understand is that women are no aliens. They are females of the human species with the same emotions, desires and needs you have.
Read something intesting to talk about and then meet some women and be interest in THEM, not their bodies. I am an exchange student in a small Swedish town. I have been here for almost 6 months and have a lot of feedback regarding this article.
I do feel, however, that we must be really careful with describing people in this manner as to avoid generalizations. Equality is really nice. Really, if you have fun and feel confident that she also enjoyed meeting you, the other person will notice you and contact you. This brings the next phase in the equation: Then you will see her in school or in a party and you can act as if nothing had happened. This is hard to achieve in latin countries without some sort of sexual tension or strings attached.
Many of them fail to even hook up because they get too drunk, try too hard, treat local girls as they treat girls in their country, or simply do not assimilate into the dating mode.
This kind of keeps a sense of interesting aura about me that the Swedish girls I have been with definitely like. I have some really close swedish guy friends here so I guess you could say that when I date girls I kind of follow their steps. I also fractured my ankle 3 weeks ago playing football and therefore am not going to bars as much. Some psychologists say that when you help someone you release endorphins and therefore, if you are good looking and have crutches while getting drunk in an afterparty, chances are you that will do well.
Guys, no means no! Big mistakes happen when you see a guy invite a girl to a party or whatever and after a refusal, he keeps on trying. Not cool… Remember that sometimes girls just go out for a drink or to catch-up with a friend, not for the whole thing. Just be genuine, funny, and actually enjoy yourself. So if you remember her during, say wednesday at My swedish girl friends tell me that it is really nice to be acknowledged outside those scenarios and that it gets you lots of points. However, I have noticed that it is easier hook-up with girls from bigger cities like Stockholm and Gothenburg that study here.
Kind of a bigger city mentality. Hope this is not a bad generalization. Finally, during one of those afterparties I met a very nice girl from Gothenburg.
She is also a crazy party girl who always gets wasted like I do so she is also being very cautious. So things are going well and I am proud of not having just thrown myself at her like I would in a latin country. I am being careful and so is she. Swedish girls are over-rated. The guys are even more ridiculous. I have many solid Swedish friends male and I rip on them almost every time we go out.
Zero game, and zero balls. They whine about wanting a wife, kids etc. The swedish girls are the most amazing girls you can ever meet. I always wanted to spend my life with a swedish girl cherishing every moment with her. February 12, at During the day they can be quite arrogant, but once they have consumed alcohol — they do not have any standards and also seem to have taste for middle eastern gentlemen because they believe them to have money..
This is something swedish women has embraced and is also a sign of freedom from predjudice and norms. Something women from other parts of the world should strive for. But it makes it so much more enjoyable as a swedish man when a swedish women chooses you even tho she has the other options at hand.
So we embrace it aswell. This site describes Swedish girls as some kind of animal, like a breed. Swedish girls are some dark skinned while some others are blonde. We do definitely not like the very same thing, so please, stop. Hey Mike, I agree that Swedish women have made tremendous strides in equality compared to other nations. However, with that equality comes a cost. Everything that happens has a cost positive and negative, called externalities.
We see as positive externalities: Negative externalities could be: Of course both types jokes are unacceptable but I see women act aggressively if someone makes a joke that related to women, eg.
I want to be Charlie Sheen; a depraved alcoholic and womanizer. I rarely hear the water cooler jokes about genderism but I have heard horrible jokes regarding ethnicity and religion at the office. From personal experience, I have never met a Swedish man that has intimidated me but I have met Swedish women who do. They come off aggressive with a bitchy streak. Okay, alright, you win! But let me say this, I used to live in Minnesota, as well as in Sweden for a numbers of years.
All these regions are full of Scandinavians. While it may be true that Swedish girls are prettiest; it is my humble opinion that upper mid-western American girls are not only pretty like their Scandinavian cousins, but also smart like many American girls, and I consider this a huge advantage that our American girls enjoy.
So the bottom line is Swedish girls are pretty, American girls are pretty [since the beauty is in the eyes of beholder]. Everybody love blondes… in my case, since I was a child I was so fall in love of a blonde girl of my neighborhood. I have all need to have success… I am a gentleman first, but with so spicy latin hot blood in my veins…. I love to talk and really I have the balls to go to talk to the most beautiful girl of the night… actually I love to feel the adrenaline when I am walking to she and she is watching me coming to her!!!!
I dont care about to go to Sweden to find my blue eyes blonde girl of my dreams… I have been in Europe 3 times and I love it! Please dont come more to europe man, we cant afford to provide for your non-working ass.
Stay in Costa Rica for the love of god. Yes I have noticed this in pictures too. What is with the fake blond hair? Why do they do that? I know quite a few Swedish Canadians and none of them are blond. No one will be convinced. My guess is that Tourism board of Sweden hands out free bottles of hydrogen peroxide to local women to encourage tourism and fulfill the expectations of male tourists….
I was just offered a job in Sweden. Believe me gentlemen, I speak from experience. Angry and argumentative all the time. A word for the wise: Mike is absolutely right. People are always going on about how beautiful Swedish women are and all the guys want to come here, etc. That is one of the biggest deceptions of all.
It is impossible to get passionately involved with Swedish women. They do sex but not passion. They are scared to death of the kind of passion which makes you want to give yourself to someone or even to die for them. So they always hold back. She will not let him into her heart. Plus the women here are very opinionated and pushy — imitating the worst aspects of men and totally unfeminine. They may dress like women but you can see that they feel uncomfortable with their femininity and walk very awkwardly.
If you cohabit with a Swedish woman you will be lucky to get a few years together or even less before she becomes bored with you and gets physically attracted to someone else, dumps you and just leaves, no matter how many kids you may have together.
These are just my observations. As soon as I saw through it which was after a few months I have avoided them like the plague! I have been observing carefully for more than a year. There are plenty of foreigners who have come here to get it together with a Swedish woman and then deeply regretted it. So let that be a warning. Looks are not everything — in fact they should take second place to what is in the heart.
Sadly there is little heart in Sweden. Forgot to close the html-tag up there! Really, really sorry, mate! My name is Tove. I am Swedish, however, and lived in Sweden until just last year, although, growing up, I also spent a lot of time in various parts of the United States. This post, on the other hand, I find blatantly offensive and insulting. Indeed, you might want to ask yourself whether it is ever appropriate to generalize across human beings. Or that all Swedish girls are lesbians because my friend is a lesbian.
Just like your post, then. Or, indeed, that all Swedish girls are blond and beautiful. Internalized sexism and internalized racism, that is. I will say this: I do not think it means what you think it means. Here is another quote for you, this time from Feminism which attempts to explicate what, exactly, being a feminist entails: My last point pertains to the final few lines of your post: Personally, I take pride in being a strong, able woman, just as much as others take pride in being more emotionally-inclined; indeed, women can be both.
In conclusion, generalizing people like that, be they woman or men, Swedish or American, blond or brunettes — what have you — is completely impossible and, furthermore, potentially endangering or problematic. Obviously, you can just snap back at me that this comment is ridiculous as a response to what essentially amounts to a silly as in lighthearted rather than vapid blog post.
Still, you posted it in the public sphere and as such all comments are merited: I doubt whether you will want to argue those points with me, but there you go, this is my response to what I consider an offensive, problematic post.
I like to think the animosity levels were kept relatively low, too. So I tend to stick to other foreign women. If I talk to Swedish women sometimes I feel like a stalker or a freak afterwards. Swedish girls might be attractive, but in my opinion they are amongst the most boring women that I have ever met.
Guys, I do not know why all this controversy on Swedish girls. It is true that they live in the cold, but they are not made of ice. In my point of view American girls are more snobbish, especially in relation to foreigners.
I had a proof of this when I visited the U. Draw their conclusions by themselves, I think you will all agree with me. Hey guuys calm down… Some swedish girls is pretty, im a swedish girl and i think u can go around the world and find pretty girls all over, swedish girls isnt special if u ask me. Several of the girls in that photo could actually be English, looking at their faces.
Not every Swedish girl is a tall blonde girl with big boops! So please stop talking about Swedish girls like we were an item! Also, we fight allot. And neither me or any of my friends have any pare of tight jeans, thats just gay. I am very much so attracted to tall, beautiful, full figured women and Sweden seems to have an abundance of these physical traits that I crave. So have a quirky sense of humor, an open mind and all will be well. The downside is that I have never been to Sweden.
The closest I got was Bavaria Germany. German woman are beautiful as well but I still want to meet some Swedish women. A guy can dream, right? I have personally found them to be extremely beautiful and friendly but somewhat reserved.
I have dated several Swedish women so I am going by my experience and my friends experiences. And yes, they were all tall, blue eyes, soft light hair and sweet dispositions. As for the foreign attractions, I guess opposites do attract and maybe that has something to do with it.
Also foreign women tend to be more aggressive with white men as they consider them a catch. I call it class and decorum, not being cold and aloof. I guess being an old fashioned guy I want to make the first move anyway. And keep in mind many foreign women come here with one purpose in mind to marry a local man.
Be wary though that many are submissive and sweet during the courting but after the marriage they become very domineering and controlling. They all ended up going back to Swedish girls after a nasty divorce or relationship. All 5 of them. So that says a lot to me and I have chosen to continue my pursuit in that direction of finding myself a nice Swedish girl. This description seems to be about her.
Thanks for the info. Wow… what a response to your post. Spans the years and scrolls forever! May I add to it? Mine is a question. I was much younger late 20s , single about a month after a painful breakup , and impressionable I was knocked out by the preponderance of beauty roaming the Stockholm scene. We went to one of the clubs and I was so overwhelmed by the number of gorgeous women that I had no idea what to say to any of them.
My travel friend was bolder and he struck up a conversation with a couple girls. To say my interest was purely innocent or intellectual would be a ridiculous lie. And surely, she sensed that. Or was she testing me to make a move? I know it was clear to both of us that I was only there for a couple days.
So what was she after? I was a nitwit then. Most of my girlfriends asked me out before I worked up the nerve to ask them. But to this day, I wonder if I threw away a beautiful if short-lived opportunity. Each person, as many have said, is an individual with their own intent. But to this day, I still remember her as a smart and talented musician , devastatingly attractive, and irresistibly sensual woman… that I may or may not have had the chance to spend a few gorgeous hours with… a long, long time ago.
I am an albanian residing in NY City. There are about Swedish -Americans here and I have met some of them. I would say that their physical appearance is stunning. The one I have met were business women or girls.
I mean they were making in average above a quarter million dollars a year. Because I am blessed with good looks always they were the ones approaching me.
Down to earth and smart. Of course I bowed to pressure and married one. She still has relatives in Sweden but I have never been there since my wife was born here. But close where I worked I have seen 3 young ladies from Sweden working in real estate office. Three of them obese, I mean real bottom heavy.
Likable faces but strange life styles. I saw them with all kinds of colored primates that reside in New York.
I did not know that obesity is a problem in Sweden and if the lifestyle of women in Sweden is like the girls I saw here, its not much to be proud of other than the looks. But again I am happy since my wife outsmarts me in many things. In my house I am the one blond and blue eyes, my swedish wife has light brown eyes, light brown hair.
This was really fun to read! LOL, I have to say the on-line dating or electronic dating has come a very long way since the days of straight forward chat rooms. A lot more and a lot more people are turning to on the internet dating sites to display prospective dates. It IS true though that most Swedish girls are tall.
I find myself tall, but im 4th tallest in class. Aw well, i respect how generalized this is, but dont get your hopes too high now, guys. Just an observation, I think the fetishising of Swedish women or any other ethnic women is unhealthy. Too me, a preoccupation with a certain ethnicity debases the women or men from your own culture and possibly indicates an inferiority complex. There are beautiful women or handsome men to be found in every country although you might have to look a little harder in some.
It seems some of the posters on here are interested in visiting Sweden not for the culture or scenery but for casual sex and hooking up. This was a funny read! I find that the women in Sweden are alot friendlier than the men? I love Sweden especially the north please someone let me move in ; haha [email address redacted].
Luke — You are right there are some posters who are only interested in hooking up with Swedes not finding or dating one. I do try to edit or not approve those posters as they do not contribute to the discussion. I found this write up and the follow up comments very interesting and somewhat true in most regard…I have to agree to one fact that have been stated here….. I am an African that have been living and studying here in Sweden for a little 3 years now……I have been with all sorts of Swedish girls….
Yea not all are good looking …I have been with more Swedish girls during my stay here than most Swedish men twice my age have….
I usually ask most of them why they end up being with me…and the response is almost always the same…which is that, they like the courage, audacity and balls I show by walking up to them and start chatting them up without have to wait until I am under the influence. Coleone — where you normally meet Swedish girls? Bars, clubs, restaurants, on the street?? I was searching for some blogs to get info bout the country before I go to visit it this december or april..
It is funny to read some of comments—their personal life experience their doubts n so on. Men are men and women are women. I tell you now my little story. I am south korean and I have been living in italy since I was 7 I just turned 20 and when I was a mid teenage I tried approaches with italian and french girls many times.
If I think about the day when she approached me I still wonder how the hell it was possible. She was tourist, she just approached me, asked me few things, then asked me about me since I told her I have been living in italy and stuffs and then she asked me to guide her through Rome.
Then we knew each other and eventually things went as it had to go. The fact she approached me like that was because maybe i have never been to swe do i dunno yet girls approaching first was a normal thing in her country..
She helped me to break the schemes, way of thinking and break the tradition. The way she first approached it.. After all women are attracted to men because we are men and nothing else and viceversa. Roles are not reversed. I hope it helped! They are absolutely right. Probably should have stuck with her. What a turn off to be analyzed like some sort of species, but yet flattering and amusing. Are blondes really that special?
I was born in the midwest of the good ole USA; my paternal grandparents were immigrants from Sweden. After college I spent 3 months in Europe traveling, half the time in Sweden and the rest traveling around parts of Northern Europe. I can say categorically, hands down the most beautiful women I encountered were in Sweden. They were natural, fit, educated for the most part , strong, and sweet. Leave your sterotypes at the door, fools.
Ask Elin Nordegren how things worked out with Tiger or any other example I could provide. Most of the things here is true, about the girls. I actually thought of all this as bullshit until I actually traveled alot and realized that girls in Sweden actually is the most freaking sexy in the world.
But the facts about the swedish dudes, not true. They are very good-looking, both men and women. And everyone loves to party. I saw that pretty sweet girl on my first day of uni in one of my lectures.
Many times I noticed her looking at me from a far and sometimes even smile. But the thing is, everytime I looked at her she looked away and when I smiled back, her reaction was like she was searching some place to hide! One time we arrive at uni at the same time, she coming from a another direction.
I noticed that when she saw me she hurried up a little and opened the door and hold it to me. But she just grew pale and looked like she was scarred of me. So, I just let it all be! I got to know her in a club. I passed by and smile at her. She smiled back, took me by the hand on the side and started quizzing me about my life and who am I? Then after I certain while talking to each other and mostly aswering to her questions , she gave me her mobile no.
Then she gave me like a 5 min french kiss and left home… I was completely puzzled! I have always personally found Swedish men to be among the sweetest, cutest men in the world. The way skin ages has nothing to do with its colour. In fact, many fair skinned people often age slower than olive-skinned people because they take more care to stay out of the sun.
Based on personal experience. What pisses me off is when girls wants me to buy them a drink, they literarily ask me! WTF Make your own money, I did not go to work just to splash my cash on some random girl. I would much rather give it to charity, which I by the way do!
One of the most un-sexy things is a women who cant take care of herself. I like my girls strong and independent when it comes to money, it shows that in a relationship I can depend on her just as she can depend on me if needed. This does not apply to friends, girlfriends or girls your dating. Those are people you buy drinks and take care off. In case you know any pages, mail lists or forums for latina girls from brazil, mexico, dominican republic, Colombia, etc, in Stockholm please let me know.
I know this relating thing can be a problem, especially when it comes to culture differences, but somethings there is no problem to big to over especially if you know what you want, all you gotta do is compromise, loosen up, lighten up, and live life happily. I have a big question, I have heard from all my buddies that when they go to Europe the most delightful and beautiful women are all either from Greece, Italy, Germany, Australia and their personal favorite Switzerland.
I have a good heart and a set mind to become successful. I am always afraid to talk to women like these because I am afraid to get rejected for being Spanish and white girls wanting to stick to their own. My main question is would a Switz girl about my age be attracted to a guy who has these type of characteristics? I am a little tan due to me being spanish I have a body ,a great personality, a good heart, I dance salsa merengue bachata reggae house, techno w.
Though perhaps you should take a mini Europe map with you to not screw up the countries and their women. Interesting article and i can find lot of similarity with Ireland where i live. I dont like generalisation though but i can see what you mean by that general way and i quite agree. You should copy and paste and post an article about ireland haha As a French dude i never really knew what all peeps had with those swedish women thingy they not better than any other european women.
Swedish are nice and gentle but nothing beats the kindness and good looks of Filipinas. My Swede is nothing like what this article describes Swedish men to be…maybe because he is in the USA now with a woman who appreciates and loves him with all my heart? Haha I found this post so amusing!! Lots of what is written is true about Swedish men and Swedish women.
Whenever I visit though, I always find it refreshing. Luckily though, I have found a nice balance. I think Swedish boys are like eggs — best analogy I could come up with. They have a hard shell exterior, but when you finally crack it, all the gooey lovey stuff comes out: Coz my girlfriend is learning Swedish language and thinking move out from our country to Sweden.
And yes i am very shy i just really dont know what to say its very enoying hehe. Especially on the first few dates you have to have a good personality, show some chivalry, and be willing to pay the bill and not be a cheap ass. Idk Is it me or is that not just common sense when it comes to trying to get a girl or even simply trying to make friends? Talking to a friend of mine recently who lived in Sweden. He said sex is easy to find, but love is not. But with a Swedish woman, should I be that forward?
Juan — May I give you some insight on why you do so poor with the ladies? Your English is terrible. Please learn grammar, spelling, punctuation and capitalization. Regardless of your native language and your English writing skills, you can at least not be a total lazy ass when it comes to capitalization. Why the fuck would a lady want to know your ball size?
Best study break from biochemistry ever! But having seen some posts here and on other sites too, and personal accounts, I would never would go to Scandinavia after women. I have some girl friends who went there and married native men, the second marriage for these men, the first was with native women, and did not last long.
And when married women from outside, these guys acted as if they were people who had never eaten a good meal in life. These girl friends have a hard time to fit in, because there are many women there who act like men and are upset by women who want to act like women, as if they want to be sex toys for men or something.
Feminists understand nothing about men. Any woman worthy of own salt knows that a guy can be displeased with a woman and not want more meetings or vice-versa , but still pay the bill as a matter of chivalry. If you scorns small kindnesses, but thinks that spending large amounts of cash is chivalry or proof of love, do not be surprised If your boyfriend dismiss you as being a coin digger.
Be a feminist or whatever, is not an excuse for not learning other philosophies of life aside from their own.
Only narrow minded people act this way. And while there is all the talk of equality, feminism is a movement not so different from French or Russian revolution.
People who are the core of the movement believe that have the best point of view, and want to take down whoever is in charge and take his place. Thanks for this good post. Now my foreign girlfriend used YOUR comment about that Swedish girls dosent even want to be with Swedish men, against me! I think I speak for all or all the non-racist, anyway Swedish men when I say to foreign women: Sure there are lots of beautiful people, but there is everywhere!
I found most of them to be over weight. I have been dating a Swedish guy, and I am still trying to figure him out! After reading your blog, I understand him a bit better…..
I thought maybe he was never taught to open doors for people, and when I got nothing for Valentines day, I was very dissapointed…. He is absolutley clueless when it comes to woman and dating! Also I had to make the first move on him…it was like he was afraid of me. Foreigners in this country like to flash stuff like newlyrich when they come over here , they live in cheap suburb complexes and then buys a merc or bmw to drive around in , Swedish GIRLS loves this cuz of their friend and all its a popularity thing.
They pretty quickly change their mind though when they finally figure out the game and good for them that swedish men are understanding and forgiving about past and smarter with money considering wellfare isnt a new thing in sweden. Its like yeah we might drive a volvo and i guess for the outside eye that doesnt look very flashy but then again the volvo dude probably have a big fat house , stabil economy and ready for family , you think the bmw guy has that?
So ill take my chanses with my volvo. Atleast i know i dont have a golddigger on my hands, wich may be another reson to why swedish men holds back on the cash for the woman … just to see who holds out and dont just want the flash.
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Because I have a thing for latin women so less exotic or not does not bother me in the least. Earlier it was me who kept bringing up talking on skype. Hes a really nice guy but i dont think i would want to be with a man who thinks like this.
S in my mind,I blame myself for not using my mind before planting the B. I have spent hours reading the comments to the posts today as it became more and more enlightening. Over here it is like this, you meet, you do it.
Be a feminist or whatever, free not an excuse youtube speed dating not learning other philosophies of swedish free online dating aside from their own. I like my girls strong and independent when it comes to money, it shows that in a relationship I can depend on her onpine as she can depend on me if needed. I want to hear your story with Hannes. I agree with Celine, a hilarious read. He is charming, funny and makes her feel at ease. Everyone has got the right to exist for their own sake. In the last few months I was approached recently 5 times by Sweedish girls in public space street, bar, night swedish free online dating.
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